How To Use Sheer Determination To Get What You Want

If what you want doesn’t happen straight away, it doesn’t mean anything, keep focused on the goal, not on the why’s or the why not’s. Keep focused on making it happen. Not through fear of it might not happen, but through sheer determination that it IS going to happen.

When I had pain in my body I decided to refuse to make it part of my life. I realised that the pain I felt was due to my need to suffer. I had a need to suffer because I led myself to believe that when things didnt happen the way I wished them to, i needed to suffer as a result.

I now no longer needed suffering in my life. I decided to choose determination, confidence, competence and capability as my MO (modus operandi).

This was going to be my new way of operating. That is who I choose to be. Suffering makes you say to yourself ‘why is this happening to me?’ Confidence makes you say – ‘I choose to feel like this’ or ‘I choose for that to become my experience’.

I no longer need pain because I choose to have a body that feels great all of the time. I choose to have a strong healthy body with strong and healthy organs. I no longer choose to make excuses in my life and use the pain to stimulate that excuse. I accept what I need to do in order to have the experience that I want.

When I tried to unsuccessfully concieve for 4 years I decided that I would have a baby the following year. I no longer needed needed another holiday, nor was my job going to be used as an excuse to not make it happen.

I accepted where my life was going to be. I didn't allow my job or my finances to conflict my mind about whether or not I wanted a baby. These things were no longer going to be in charge of my decision.

I no longer cared if I must pay for childcare, that is the rule of the game and I am prepared to play it. I had chosen that I wanted a baby the next year so in order for that to happen, I will make the necessary decisions and arrangements.

I will no longer listen to those women who complain about how hard it is or how much sacrifice it takes to raise a child, I choose to change my lifestyle in order to have that life. I no longer care how many hospital appointments I need to take or how many pills or change of nutrition or how much exercise I need to do in order to make it happen. I have chosen to do these things in order to make my reality of having a baby next year come into fruition.

I was determined to make it happen. And if it didn’t happen then I will keep focused on making it happen rather than on why it didn’t happen. When you starting asking yourself ‘Why is it not happening’ you are implying that it is not going to happen and you don’t know why.

But when you find your determination and you state that no matter what, it is going to happen, because you are going to make it happen.

I told myself that 'I will be a good mum'. Why? Because I have to be. I am determined to be a good mum, to love my child and to give it my loving attention. Just like I loved my dog and I lovingly gave her my attention, I will do the same with my baby.

I will be a good parent. I will be a responsible parent. I will be financially secure no matter what in order to provide for my child. There are no if’s or but’s, I will be financially secure because I will make myself financially secure no matter what.

Living in fear of what if’s just makes you insecure about your future. What if you lose your job, what if you don’t get pregnant this time?

So what if you do lose your job, worrying about it does nothing except incapacitate you. Knowing that you will have a job no matter what because even if you lost one, you will make another one happen no matter what, because that is what determination does to you.

Determination makes you act and get what you need. So what if the pregnancy doesn’t happen this time, it will happen because your determination will make it so. Being determined to have a healthy baby and staying pregnant to full term will happen because you are determined to see it through.

When people ask me about how I got pregnant I will tell them that I was determined to make it happen. Before I used to live not knowing what was meant to be or if I was good enough to have it. I changed my thinking to making it happen for me rather than giving my power away to an external force.

I used to question whether or not I wanted it. Even though we were 'trying' and going through IVF, I still questionned whether or not I wanted it. But the word 'want' is no different to the word 'hope' or 'wish', because I want a lot of things.

But what it comes down to is, what are you going to make happen for you? Not, I will try to make it happen and therefore I will take the necessary steps, it might happen or it might not happen but I don’t have control over that.

This time it is a case of, I have decided that I want it and I don’t care what it takes to get there. Your body and your mind will adjust in ways to make it happen because you have decided. The universe around you will take shape to make this a reality. This is the real law of attraction. But the action is the determination you need to make you succeed.

So this is how to use sheer determination to get what you want. You must make it so.

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