Forget Hope - DECIDE What You Want

True inner confidence comes from being able to make a decision and sticking to it. We all hope and wish and dream, but they become just that, wishy-washy hopes and dreams. Deciding on the other hand, now that is when things start to happen. Forget hope and instead decide what you want.

If you want to know what real inner confidence is, it is the difference between wanting something and claiming it as yours. When you are able to claim it, it requires an inner confidence that stops all second-guessing and over analysing in order to acquire it.

Over the years I have somehow diminished my own inner confidence into believing I can't when I can. Maybe it was when I got married, or maybe it was when things I really wanted didn't come into fruition, or maybe it was the company I was keeping, but somewhere along the lines I diminished myself.

I decided to try a hypnosis audio by Marisa Peer on Confidence and Self-Esteem. Throughout that hypnosis I reconnected with my old self who used to be much more confident than I was today. Self-esteem requires that you to like who you are. Inner confidence on the other hand is being firm with your decisions and not second-guessing or over analysing them.

If you constantly second guess and over-analyse you will continue to do that. It is like training your brain to keep doing it. But once you connect with your inner confidence you just KNOW you have made the right decision.

Think of something you wish you had, or even something you would love to have. Now think of it again, but this time you have decided it is going to be yours. That no matter what, you are going to have it. You have decided that it is going to happen so therefore it is on its way to you. It's already happening.

This is what it is like to decide that something is going to be yours. There is a determination inside each and all of us that just KNOWS when something is ours for the taking. It is just like buying something from the shop or deciding your next holiday.

Just because it is a big thing doesn't change its effect on whether or not it can be had. It takes exactly the same kind of energy and the same effort to acquire it.

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